From a recent news story: Giving More by Giving Less
It takes only a bit of creative thinking to come up with alternatives
to excessive consumerism. Some ideas:
* Students at Trinity Western University [Langley, BC, Canada]
set up a free store, bringing things they didn't need and trading
with each other.
* One family does a "make or bake" among siblings, exchanging
names and producing one homemade gift each.
* Some families now include sponsoring a child overseas or providing
a goat or chickens for a micro-enterprise as a means of teaching
their children to reach out to others. Or they help out at a soup
kitchen or deliver Christmas hampers together.
* Time is often a bigger gift than money. Creating coupons that
offer free babysitting or housecleaning, a neck massage or a special
treat can mean more than a stocking stuffer.
* Offer to teach someone a skill you have.
* Write a poem, tell a story, draw a picture or take a photograph
and present it in a creative way.
* Give fairly traded coffee, tea or chocolate, get beautiful items
at garage sales or buy gifts from shops that support artisans in
poorer countries.
* Make your own cards from recycled paper.
* Avoid commercial wrapping paper, ribbons, bows and tape, which
are not recyclable, and opt for gift bags, tea towels or nice boxes,
which are eco-friendly.
A hand made recipe book would be a good idea. A compilation
of old family recipes from your family, and your friends' families.
Start collecting them in the summer and take your time and edit and
make them real nice and sturdy (to withstand the heavy use!) - Brittany
Books on tape - this is great if you have two or three people
on your list that will enjoy the same book, it only costs time! A compilation
CD of the choir my husband and I sing in. Make a puppet theater
- paint a white sheet, cut a hole out for the stage, and hang in hall/door
with a tension rod). If I get ambitious, I'm thinking of producing
a video for distant family members of our kids' exploits in the
past year. My husband is a composer, and he is planning to compose theme
songs for some of our family members. - Noelle
Adopting a polar bear, snow leopard or giant panda in the name of
all my friends and family members from World Wildlife Fund. - Matt
One year I made mini loaves of quick bread. I think it was
pumpkin bread. One could make cranberry or whatever you like. I wrapped
the loaves and placed them in small baskets that I picked up at yard
sales over the summer months. I added packets of instant spiced cider,
cocoa, or tea, and festive napkins. I then tied it up with a raffia
bow along with a recipe card for the bread. Another year I made key
chains out of beads that matched the color of each persons car. - Lisa
Wilson
Well, our buy-nothing circle spread just a little wider this Christmas,
and I'd like to share a few highlights. They include some "transition"
gift ideas too, for those who can't handle BNC just yet:
- One friend saved us a lot of money by simply handing us some RAM for
our PC. He knew we needed it and he had extra. It was great!
- Two family members got creative and made by hand an "action figure"
of my husband and a marionette of me! Of course, this wouldn't work
if the individuals didn't happen to be so artistically talented, but
what unique and personal gifts!
- Another friend who makes pottery simply gave us a lovely bowl more
special than anything we could have bought.
- Parents bought us necessities that we would have had to buy anyway.
- We made writing paper with hand-drawn silly little doodles
and hand-folded envelopes for some friends.
- For most of those who weren't ready to move to a buy-nothing Christmas,
we bought organic herbal teas and fair-trade coffees... they don't add
to the clutter because they're enjoyed and gone, and they support sustainable
businesses!
Small steps ... but in the right direction. - Sara Parks Ricker
Brilliant website and ideas. You get my full support. As an another
idea, try www.oxfamunwrapped.com.
It allows you to send a gift to the 3rd World and depending on your
budget you can buy chickens, blankets, radios, right up to a travelling
theatre! Our 10 year old son has 'traded in' some store gift vouchers
to buy a goat. We have sent friends and families christmas 'gifts'from
this site. Best wishes - Chris, Nottingham, UK
At our house, we try to make all Christmas gifts. That means that
December is a flurry of activity as our children make salt dough ornamments
and then paint them to give to teachers and other adult friends. Last
year, one boy made playdough, and one made a crayon ball to give to
the other. For our friends, we've painted white candles with Christian
symbols; these have become tradition. For our extended families, we
made books with old pictures and memories. Our children especially love
hand-made gifts; in this age where everything is plastic, they relish
the idea of love in a sweater. - Molly
I have been going down to my local recycling centre to see
what's on offer. To my surprise, I found 10 glass coffee containers.
Which are now glassed painted and filled with goodies for kids. -
Sophia
A couple of years ago I did a calendar for the family with
everyone's photos and birthdays. That was a big hit. - Karin
Last year we had a cookie exchange instead of a big party for
work. Everyone brought cookies or treats - whatever their specialty
was (one person made tree ornaments instead). We RSVP'd so we knew how
many cookies to make, one for each person because we had so many people.
We all went home with piles of cookies and treats. It was great, and
so much fun. - Annika Sangster
What about bumper stickers? I'd love to puchase some of these posters
in bumper sticker format. Available? - schrills Editors response:Hmm... I'm already feeling like we have too
much stuff on our website. Would we sell the bumper stickers on the
Buy Nothing Christmas website? Maybe start off with a colour printout
of your favourite poster, laminate it and then glue it on your bumper.
I know, sounds dumb, and like a lot of work. But the more time you spend
creating your own world, your own messages, the more alive you become.
I can help with re-formatting graphics or text for printouts. Let me
know how it goes. If you have some success with bumper stickers, let
me know and I'll try to spread the word. Best, Aiden.
I'm going to give myart this Christmas. It gave me
the motivation to finish the production of a demo CD. The first copies
will go to my family and friends. Gabriel
Give Linux for Christmas! It's free and it works like a charm!
These days, distributions include not only the operation system that
runs your computer, but applications such as word processing, spreadsheets,
picture and sound editing, etc. And give a hand installing it. It's
not that it's too difficult, but some people's tech-savvyness is rather
limited. Gilles Pelletier
We have just launched a new scheme in the UK called
Wedding List Giving Ltd. It allows the prospective bride and groom
to choose a charity and ask guests to donate towards the "gifts of their
choice." Hannah Crouch [Editor's note: the site includes charities like
the Alzheimers Society, Amnesty International, Cancer Research UK, Children's
Express, Friends of the Earth, Greenpeace, Oxfam, Tearfund and others.]
Just try make a spiritual gift, not material, not an object. I prefer
doing something - singing a song, writing a poem - for a person.
Plus a little beatiful card, because most people want to "have something
in the hands," it's just a habit. Matania, Russia
Great site, lovely idea. Some friends of mine have a jumble exchange;
it works like this. Everyone brings clothes, books, ornaments or toys
that they don't really use any more. It all gets laid out on tables
or a tarpaulin in the garden (or in the house if you have room). Everyone
picks out what they want (no money changes hands). At the end there's
a "grand holding up" where everyone is shown what is left. If no-one
wants it, it goes to a charity shop (thrift store). Usually there are
three or four big bags left over to go to the charity shop. Another
idea is to write out some nice poetry in calligraphy style and frame
it. To avoid buying the frame, you could make it out of driftwood or
broken china mosaic, or pebbles. Yvonne Aburrow
We bought wax and made homemade candles. My husband carved stamps,
we made our own paper and made greeting cards on recycled paper. Most
of all, we vow to get the Christmas spending craziness under control
and pay attention to our families and each other instead of the mall!
If you still want to give a gift, there are so many more worthy causes
than supporting the manufacture of plastic toys. I work for a nonprofit
organization that supports grassroots groups working to live sustainably,
preserve biodiversity, and gain a voice in their future. See www.greengrants.org.
Other groups doing similar work include www.globalfundforwomen.org,
www.globalfundforchildren.org.
For more information on global giving in general, see www.gwob.orgErika Carlson
For your husband: Go to your favourite market or second hand shop
and get a nice frame. With your most creative writing, write your wedding
vows. Maud Ray
I usually make fudge (it helps to find a really good recipe) and put
it in tins. I also buy old frames for cards, etc., I think the person
would enjoy. I don't buy for anyone that is not either my child or parents/inlaws.
And other than for the kids, I refuse to pay a lot. The cheaper it is
the more personal it is sometimes.— Shelley, Prince Edward
Island, Canada
For me, environment and peace issues are interrelated, inseparable
even. Some gift purchases help the environment and peace: Give people
CFL bulbs to save energy. Give Fair Trade coffee, tea and chocolate
made in people-friendly and earth-friendly ways. Buy recycled paper
for people. If possible pay someone to buy clean electricity which is
still more expensive than dirty electricity. And one of our special
concerns: Purchase a Peace Bond from the Nonviolent Peaceforce which
even now has peace teams in Sri Lanka. "Upon Maturity the Bearer
will See a Large International Team Trained for Nonviolent Conflict
Intervention Around the World". Go to NonviolentPeaceforce.org
to learn more. Keep up the good work. — A. Palmer, Swarthmore,
Pennsylvania
Perhaps an alternative to department stores is Ten
Thousand Villages which provides vital, fair income to Third World
artisans by marketing their handicrafts and telling their stories in
North America. This alternative emphasizes the fair distribution of
wealth while still in a consumerism context. — Shalom, Carl
Make a sweater from yarn found at goodwill/used clothing store.—
Kristina Giggz
Look through your (and your kids') old clothes, cut out squares of
fabrics they will remember, and make a little wall hanging or pillow
or stuffed toy or whatever. Pick a nice quote or scripture verse and
write it up in calligraphy or a nice handwriting. — Gwenyth
When i was little my parents always recorded a tape of me singing
christmas caroles and/or reading stories for my grandparents and other
family that lived far away. When i got older i started to make little
comics for my friends, that were about us and things we had done. always
with an added twist and some inside humour. This is totally fun to do-
even if you're drawings are crappy. i think that this year i will write
stories for my friends and family telling them why i love them! —
T.B.
Make pillows or stuffed animals. Cut out soft pieces of felt and hot
glue them on to the pillow to personalize them with messages or make
cute faces. — Kaitlin
Give something you don't use any more. A sweater that you only
wore once; a set of drinking glasses you forgot you owned. Clean them
up and give them as gifts. I have found all sorts of things in my apartment
that I have no need for, but know someone who would appreciate and enjoy
it! — Jessica
When someone asks what I want for Christmas I tell them, "Peace
on Earth. Goodwill for all". If they explore the idea further (usually
with, "No, really. What do you want?") I tell them to pick
a charity and give to them whatever they would have spent on me. It
makes me feel good that someone who really needs it is getting something.
And ... It always fits! — Bill Budenholzer
Babysitting coupons for the new parents. Grow your own veggies,
can or freeze them and give them away at Christmas/Solstice. Spend more
time with your family and friends...when you're dead you won't be able
to. Decide as a family to work less hours, spend less and have more
time together. Shovel the sidewalk for your neighbour. Plant trees.
— Lee
Make a small drawing of your select person's living room or other
room in their house and give it to them. — Julian van Mossel-Forrester
I have been giving more gifts that consist of certificates of gift
from the Heifer Project. This year
the only exception is my 9 year old granddaughter. — Paul
Shankland
I am making several batches of biscuits ("cookies" your
side of the pond!) and boxes from some lovely dark red recycled card.
— Alice Crawford
Plant plants, now, to give for Christmas. Herbs, in particular.
This is one way to always be present in your loved one's days for a
while to come. — jeela
Buy a used book and in the inside cover explain why you chose the
book for that person.
Make tree ornaments out of old CDs.
Purchase gifts at a fair-trade shop, garage sale or thrift shop.
Make hand-made soap or candles.
If you are skilled in a particular area, offer a lesson or class.
Make a birdseed ball.
Make a soothing, herb pillow filled with lavender, rose, etc.
Collect quotes that make you think of someone.
Stamp and address postcards for family members.
For the elderly people in your life, research newspaper and magazine
articles from their youth and present in a creative fashion.
Make a calendar with pictures of family members and/or scenery.
Wrap gifts in newspaper, maps, scarves or interesting clothing.
Fill an old trunk or suitcase with fun clothing, hats and gaudy jewelry
for your children to play dress-up.
Make a puppet from a sock.
Give away a valued possession.
Frame a piece of your artwork.
Fill a basket with home-made goodies.
Bake your favourite holiday treat and pack in a recycled tin.
Paint an empty wine bottle with non-toxic paint and fill with olive
oil. Top with an oil pour spout that can be found at a gourmet cooking
shop.
Videotape and interview your elderly parents about childhood memories,
how they met, etc., and give to siblings or children.
Compile a list of memories and arrange them in a creative fashion.
Do something exciting and challenging together (e.g., long walk, bike
ride, hike, art course).
Knit a stocking, hat, socks, etc.
Write and illustrate a book for the young people in your life.
Collect meaningful photos for the gift recipient, make colour photocopies
and create a collage.
Create a menu of various culinary delights (e.g., Tantalizing
Thai, Mexican Fiesta, etc.) and have the gift recipient choose one of
the options.
Create coupons for a massage, spring cleaning, child-minding, manicure,
etc.